“If you don’t believe in god, say ocean.”

“Part of the reality of searching for queer respites is that they are fleeting, ever-evolving, a question without a resolved answer.”

The Context Coin

If I’m obsessed with preparing for every eventuality, where’s the room for surprise? For delight? For exchange?

Brace, Ebb, Theft

When I make light of this season—either because I’m afraid of it, or embarrassed that it’s happening to me, or something else—I rob myself of the chance to feel my way through into whatever comes next.